Wednesday, May 06, 2009

Why I Write


I have always journaled for as long as I can remember. There was a period of time when I stopped journaling out of free that my mother would read my writings. It was a time in my life where I felt that my personal thoughts were just that, personal & nothing I wanted to share with anyone else. My mother had a history of intruding on my privacy. The main reason this bothered me was because for as long as I can remember she had always said, "I will never go through your things or invade your privacy unless you give me a reason to." I was a really good kid growing up never got into any trouble unless I made a "C" on my report card and she still went through me things. Read my journals. Gave me a fear of writing for quite sometime. Until I moved out of the house at least.
I have stacks upon stacks of journals. The only real reason I can ever remember writing is so that my kids will have a better understanding of who I am and where I have been in life as they get older and see me as their mom, no as a person. I want them to be able to read my writings and relate to me in the sense that, I too was once their age and am capable of understanding how they feel about things. I use it as a way to relate to my future.

Sunday, May 03, 2009

Good Article

http://www.boston.com/news/local/articles_of_faith/2009/05/dalai_lama_smar.html?p1=Well_MostPop_Emailed6

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Today's Matra

Good Morning!

Today's Mantra is "Stop Complaining!"

We've all been on the receiving side of someone who just won't
stop complaining, so you know what it feels like. You get
tired of hearing them!

But you've done the "dishing out" too.

You get anxious, depressed, angry, and just plain tired!

Complaining takes a lot of energy out of you, even on the
receiving end!

So imagine the energy it takes from YOU when YOU do the
complaining!

And what good does the complaining do? Does it solve anything?

Think about it. By the time we get done complaining, we could
have done/said something productive!

Remember to "stop the complaining" - TELL someone, politely,
that you just cannot listen to it.

and Stop Complaining yourself!

Notice how much better you feel!


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